the catch phrase-give and take
the actions to take-rank the importance of the situation and choose your emotions properly.

Dont know to thank God for letting me see more kinds of situation in this world, or to scold him for spoiling my comfortable comfort zone.

Was in a situation today. I dont blame anyone. I guess that i'm too used to my cedar friends, that i kinda treat other people the same way that i treat them. I failed to see that when i meet different type of people, then i will see the different types of character, and see how they react to the different types of situation.

Like for today being late..To me and guess most of my cedar friends, it was never an issue, cause i guess everyone will be late in some point of their life. So when one is late, we just wait.. If they happen to be very late, we will always move on with the plan and meet them later. So it will be a win win situation.

But not everyone is like that, some just get pissed off when someone is late. But i guess its because they got scolded really badly when they were late too. So its like a chain effect.

But look at it..Isnt it a very trivial issue..I dont blame them for being angry cause it was more to the situation of being late just now. And i guess all the unhappiness started piling up and everyone just got quite irritated.

And i guess i never be so torn apart due to trival issues which i rarely chance upon in my life, cause just simply to say that the friends that i grew up with are mostly not affected by such trival issue. We cant really be bothered in blowing such stuff up cos there's more joy in the other things we had to do. So i guess just now i nearly broke down, cause i was really torn in between so many people. All with different views and perspectives, and the thing is NO ONE CAN PLEASE EVERYONE!!

So here comes the catch phrase-we just have to give and take sometime. Be patient when someone is late, cause you will never know if you will be late next time. Cause if everyone had this patience, the situation would be much happier, and really why bother getting worked out.

Guess we have to work things out, and try to wait. Cause if waiting for friends was never easy, how about our relationship with God.

Sometimes God answers us fast, sometimes He answers us slowly. Yet, sometimes it becomes the other way round. Does God gives up on us when we fail to answer his calls? NO.. cause even if we were to make him wait for a day, a month, a year, a decade, he will still be there waiting for us.

No one is perfect, but we can do our best in following the example Jesus had set for us.

So lets give and take. (i hope i never offended anyone, if i did, i'm sorry)

I also want to thank God for giving Mary a safe delivery. Mary is mark's Godmother, and on this very day Ashley is born. I really thank God for this days, that he never once lost his eyes on both mother and child. Praise the Lord.

cheers..